Can I start a religious order?
I've been thinking about this a while, actually several years.
I would describe my call to vocation being that I knew I wanted to be a pastor by the time I was 8, but I'd wanted to be a nun by the time I was 3 or 4. It just seemed like a good idea. Then I heard that only Catholics were nuns, and forgot about it, for the most part.
These days though, I know there's Anglican nuns and Lutheran deaconess communities and Presbyterians who join Benedictine orders. I know I could 'oblate' to any order, but it doesn't quite sit right with me. There are orders I would really like to join as a full sister, but they don't accept non-Catholics, and I like being Presbyterian. There's orders that would accept me as a Presbyterian, but they're far away from the places I seem called to be, set apart from the world and from people. I think I need to be with the poor and oppressed. I think the South Side of Chicago is calling me for at least another ten years.
One question is whether I'm crazy. I could be. Protestants especially would think that anyone who chooses celibacy or poverty is a little nuts, let alone divine obedience. I have worried myself that it's too self-grandiose to start an order. I don't want to be a rock star or cult figure. But St. Theresa wasn't a rock star or cult figure; and neither was St. Francis really, nor Catherine MacAuley (Sisters of Mercy). I asked one sister friend last year how orders got founded, and she said, "Someone got up one day and started them." My friend David here wonders why I don't do just that. I hesitate, but the idea is growing on me.
The next questions are, on what principles to found an order (the 'charism'), and what to call it. Here are the principles that seem important:
--open to people of all faith traditions
--material simplicity; amassing no property, investments, or status
--resistance to militarism
--upholding the humanity of all people
--voluntary service to others, especially the poor and oppressed
--commitment to community and obedience to God
--spiritual support for those who choose to remain single; as well as those who choose to marry
--a spirit of cooperation and friendship with all other orders and groups striving to live out similar values
I've thought of names that strike me as especially meaningful, such as:
Order of Ecumenical Benedictines (OEB), using an inclusive Rule of Benedict
Order of Preachers of Poverty (OPP), encouraging a ministry that rejects the model of "success =bigger church and bigger salary,"
Order of Poor Servants (OPS), following the same model, but emphasizing the ministry of all.
So, I'm still thinking about it. I think about it actually every day.
Thursday, July 26, 2007
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
5 comments:
You should totally think of a bad-ass name for your order: like the Brothers and Sisters of Dorothy Day. (BSD) Or the Pretty Badass Regulars (PBR.) Or the Sandanista National Liberation Front. (FSLN)
I commend you. I too have struggled with this. I'm Anglican and all orders available to me are US based, at least for the novitiate, and I do not feel called to leaving my aging mother to pursue this......indeed I feel a loving God would not call me to leave her and break one of his own commandments (honour your mother & father).
I am also now pushing 50 and too long in the tooth for an Order to accept me.
It has often crossed my mind to start an Order in Canada...open to baptized Christians (in the accepted catholic form), utilizing Anglican liturgy.....and, with consensus, developing a Rule or Guidance of live stressing obedience (to the Word), material minimalism (poverty re-worked into modern lingo) and sexual responsibility (abstinence re-worked as well)........something simple, modern & relevant......
May God bless you endevours.
Hi, look into the Diakonia website. Maybe you wont have to reinvent the wheel.
don
Dear Sister in Christ,
If you feel called to form a monastic community then you should certainly "go for it". I did!
Blessings
Bro. John-Anthony
Dear sister - and all others that have the same thoughts: just follow your heart. Do not hesitate. Do not worry about the name, success, or "originality" of the community's spirituality. That all will come... Begin your journey right now, belief that it is a call from God, never doubt and ever trust in HIM. He will be with you all times. Become what you are ment for.
In the love of the risen One.
Br. Nikodemus
Post a Comment